There really is a such thing as being single by choice. People (my dad especially) always ask me why am I single... See, I took EmB's advice a long time ago. To get what you want, you have to know what you want. I know that no one is perfect, and may not be all of these things, that I have listed that a man, especially my man should be... However, I also believe you have to know who you are and what you can offer to bring to the table of a relationship, in order to have a successful one. I want all of these things that I am going to share with you in a man... I simply want all of these things, because I know that I am all of these things. Perfect ground for compatibility. Yes, I made a list. I know what I want. I am the package that I seek to find in a man. I have all of those things to bring to the table... I would only hope, God willing that my good dude can mirror that. I mean after all, us women were created from their ribs right? So why wouldn't he be a splitting image of me?
Evaluate your self... What can you bring to the table? Make a list of what you want in a man, so that you can attract and identify who he is, when he finds you or you find him or God just presents you two to each other....
Top 5 Questions, that guys who are interested in courting you, will always ask immediately.... What Is Your type #translation Am I Your Type???
No particular order:
- Wholesome
- ♥'s My Jesus
- Know's Jesus (no one comes to the father [GOD] but by Him)
- Humble
- Spiritual
- Gottaaaaaaa Have #Swag (Idc how old some may think this word is).
- 5'11 + (what you want me to do... I'm sorrrrrrrryyyyyy *HovVoice* )
- Perfect Smooth Complexion - #SuperficialNeeeeed lol
- Hip Hop Oriented - Yessssirrr like my Jay... warning: I'm liable to quote those meannnnn lyrics @ any given timeeeeee, He gotta "feel my drift" lol...
- Music connoisseur versatility
- Out-Going
- So Into Me, like the fabolous song with Tamia sangggin' :-)
- Charismatic
- Patient - with me & with life in general
- REAL - Even if it hurts.
- Kind
- Polite
- Forgiving
- Thoughtful & Considerate
- Grateful
- Supportive - my biggest fan
- Goal-oriented
- Family-oriented
- Future-minded
- Appreciates me... Compliments me....
- Let's me spoil him rotten & in return he can kinda sorts do the same
- Faithful - of course I'd want my man to admire & appreciate beauty - that's how he got me, but I cant deal with a cheater cheater pumpkin eater!
- Loyal to our bond - what we got shouldn't be shared with anyone else, on the level we're on (.) ------> that's a period. btw lol
- My BBFL (BestFriendForLifeeeee)
- Easy going... Chillled. Laid back.... #CoolerThanTheOtherSideOfThePillow
- Adventurous
- Good dresser... Knows how to make it do what it do with the fitted
- Fresh/Clean (hygiene) *insert OutKast's So Fresh, So Clean hook here*
- Sweet, yet Street... Hood but GOOD - "Takes a certain type of man to teach, to be far from hood, but understand the streets" #Drizzzzzzy
- Knows how to handle & talk to this @PoshYoungLady
- Open & Great Communication // Great Listener
- Gentle, mild mannered
- Handsome....BEAUTIFUL.....Nice lil somethin'..... #SuperFicialNeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeed ThankYouLord.
- Good Hearted
- Authentic.
- Genuine.
- Confident- not overly... but perfectly.
- Trust Worthy
- Entrepreneurial - I just wanna help sell it like a fly ad.
- Adaptive: knows how to maneuver- the streets, me, the burbs, the hood, politically correct.... Time&Place4EVERYTHING
- Dedicated
- Honest
- Logical - Im a dreamer... So Somebody has got to keep me grounded (other than my dad/brother)... It's your job now... cause HeadStaysInClouds
- Intriguing - Got my attention & keeps my attention "keep things certainly new"......
- Good Reputation. Well Known.
- My good dude...My whole food on protools
- Stand up kinda guy; knows how to ride
- Witty With Words
- Romantic #chivalryAin'tDead...These dudes just scareddd #Jeezy
- Great sense of humor - without that we probably have nothingggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg Oh, oK -
- Educated
- Low-Key, Dude better NOT be dougie-ing in the club, shouldnt even be a though of his. -_-
- G R E A T _ _ _, he should really just know how to lay the....never mind ;-)
- Established....
- Opinionated, I dont need a pushover... he gotta put me in my place
- Dependable - just hold me down - be my double cup love; the one that I lean on.
- Gives me the S P A C E that I need....
- Cleans up niceeeeeeeeeeeeeee (like a fab adlib)
- Gentleman
So what that there is ALOT of synonyms... lol
thank you Lord. thank you Lord. thank you Lord.
CanAgirlJussstDreammmmm.....
Does this guy even exists? *holds breath & waits for it*
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